one of the good ones
The Other Black Girl“One of the good ones” is a phrase Nella hears as both praise and warning. In her account, it turns trust into a verdict on someone’s character, even though no person’s allyship can be perfectly consistent. Her wariness matters especially at Wagner Books, where race, workplace hierarchy, and the pressure to be treated as an exception shape how she judges colleagues and how they treat her.
Meaning and Warning
Nella’s mother has long called the phrase one of the most dangerous in English, and Nella has come to agree. The danger lies in the certainty it implies: a person can be sorted as good, as though their decency and understanding were settled facts. Nella can believe in allies—people who understand something of her experience—without treating that understanding as a permanent guarantee. Her refusal of the label is not a refusal of trust; it is a refusal to make trust depend on an idealized category.
Hazel’s Assessment of Vera
The phrase enters the conversation when Hazel, Nella’s new cube neighbor, wonders whether Vera is one of the good ones. Hazel finds her approachable and more relaxed than Maisy, while Nella points out that Vera is still her boss and that their roles impose clear boundaries. The question is therefore not simply whether Vera seems kind. Her authority over Nella complicates any easy judgment of personal goodwill.
Nella initially expected Hazel to share her caution, given Hazel’s years working with white people in Boston. But she also remembers how warmly Vera welcomed Hazel and how kind Vera could be in private when she let her guard down. Nella allows that she may be judging her boss too harshly and says, in comparison with Maisy, Vera is different. That concession does not establish Vera as an uncomplicated ally; it shows Nella revising a judgment while keeping the structural limits in view.
Allies and Exceptions
Nella applies the same resistance to the label in her relationship with Owen. She considers him an ally, but not because he is free of racial assumptions or shares all her cultural references: he does not simply fail to see race, and knowing the lyrics to Al Green’s “Love and Happiness” is not her test. She declines to call even her boyfriend one of the good ones because no human being can sustain such consistency and innocence. The distinction lets her value Owen’s support without treating intimacy as proof that he will understand every part of her experience.
The Workplace Stakes
At Wagner, Nella’s colleagues often treat her as an exception: a qualified young woman who happens to be Black, as if her degree had erased her racial identity. She has heard a colleague respond to diversity efforts by suggesting that hiring nonwhite people would mean hiring unqualified people. That assumption helps explain why Nella hesitates to confront Colin about his conduct: she expects him to hear criticism as an accusation of racism and become defensive. Although colleagues rarely ask her to perform sensitivity reads or speak about Black issues, that distance can feel less like respect than a denial of her identity. Against this background, the expression exposes the risk in calling someone good on the basis of warmth or apparent openness alone: an individual can seem approachable while remaining part of a workplace whose boundaries and assumptions still constrain Nella.